The world revolves around that thing they called ‘love’… Well for me, it’s not.
There’s so many things beyond that. Love is not a drink nor meat-it’s probably not everything.
As humans, we thought that certain emptiness should always be filled. Sometimes it causes an excruciating pain which made us all numb. We thought happiness is always depends if we have someone with us, but to tell everyone honestly… It isn’t.
“Love suffers long and is kind; Love does not envy; Love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; Does not behave rudely, does not seek it’s own, is not provoked, think no evil; Does not rejoice in inequity but rejoices with the truth; Bears all things, Believes all things, Hopes all things, Endures all things.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
Love should be like this-what’s written on the bible and not the other way around.
But why do people commit mistakes-even sins?
In our everyday lives we saw how many people have taken their lives just because someone commits adultery, someone left them behind, someone didn’t love them back.
I’m so used in seeing people begging to be loved-crying over love as if it’s the end of the world.
You think forever is not true because your boyfriend or girlfriend broke up with you.
You think that you can’t find love when that one person you’re dreaming and wishing for cannot be yours.
You think of taking your own life because someone cheated on you.
We crave for love, when in fact we all have it from the start.
And we all forgot that one person who can really give that unconditional, infinite and the love we’re all dreaming for, it’s him… It’s God.
Plus our friends… our family.
We should eliminate those negative feelings, we should labeled those as toxics.
We should accept that we’re living in the reality, where love can’t feed us.
We should stop begging for the love of someone because from our family and God it’s more than enough.
We should stop looking at those far fetched persons we cannot have, and start focusing on that one who can make us feel how wonderful it is to love and be loved.
Love is such powerful thing, but we should not mistakenly identified it as… everything.
Yes, we should done all the things with love. But always remember, excessive use is always bad. Know your limits.